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Habits-mother of destiny

Posted by CMA Tapan Dhar on Friday, February 4, 2022,

Habits-mother of destiny

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Introduction:

Habit is something which we keep on reflecting in our action & behaviour regularly.

Our action & behaviour is the reflection of our thought process. We all have some good or bad habit. If our thoughts are good, our action & behaviour will be good. If our thoughts are bad our action & behaviour will also become bad. If we keep on using same type of action & behaviour repeatedly, it becomes our habit.

“What we think we become”-Ga...


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Habits

Posted by CMA Tapan Dhar on Friday, February 4, 2022,

  

  

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Success with Spiritual attainment

Posted by CMA Tapan Dhar on Friday, February 4, 2022,

  Success with Spiritual attainment

                 Published on-01/03/2013 in www.selfgrowth.com

What is success: It is defined as the achievement of the objective. Different people define their objective differently. Some people set their objective of getting something in the material world, such as acquiring wealth, acquiring a high position & status in the society & so on.
Some people define success by what they can contribute to the society.
If your objective is only to acquire someth...


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QUALIFIED vis-a-vis EDUCATED

Posted by CMA Tapan Dhar on Tuesday, December 4, 2018,

                                                   Qualified vis-à-vis Educated                          

We normally use the word educated for a person who has acquired some qualification in certain fields or subjects.

In real sense all qualified persons are not educated.

Qualified implies the formal recognition by certain institution that the person has acquired knowledge in certain subjects.

An institution can train a person & give a certificate that the person is qualified in the sp...


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Click on the link, take survey & earn money

Posted by CMA Tapan Dhar on Friday, November 30, 2018,

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Click on the link, take survey & earn money

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Mother Teresa

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Tuesday, January 10, 2012,
At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received or how much money we have made...
We will be judged by 'I was hungry and you gave me to eat, i was naked and you clothed me, i was homeless and you took me in.---Mother Teresa

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Compassion

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Monday, May 16, 2011,
Be ruled by compassion.

Among the wealthy, compassionate men claim the richest wealth, for material wealth is possessed by even contemptible men.
Find and follow the good path and be ruled by compassion. For if the various ways are examined, compassion will prove the means to liberation.-----Thiruvalluvar.



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Love

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Monday, March 14, 2011,
Life filled with love is ultimate fulfillment.---Mata Amritanandamayi.

There is love in every one of you. Develop that love. Share it with people. This love is not a one-way traffic. It is two way give & take----Sathya Sai Baba

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Character

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Tuesday, August 3, 2010,
Character is like a tree & reputation like a shadow.
The shadow is what we think of it, the tree is the real thing- Abraham Lincoln.

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Message of Sri Mata Amritanandamayi Devi(Amma)

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Wednesday, April 15, 2009,
No matter how rich we are, as long as we have no compassion, we ourselves, are truly living in utter poverty. If we are compassionate towards our fellow beings, it is like gold with a fragrance, something utterly unique. Its value is beyond all words.

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Quotes

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Friday, March 27, 2009,
"We shape and mould our lives with our thoughts, expressions and our actions"-Blanca Greenberg

"We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give"-Winston Churchill.

"Spirituality brings purpose & meaning to life. And as we develop it we grow in wisdom & love"-Alan Shelton

"Your own thoughts & desires make up your life, & everything you see is contained within yourself. By your own thoughts you make your life, your world & your unverse"-James Allen

"Good people do not need laws to t...

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Swami Vivekananda

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Friday, March 20, 2009,
"We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think.
Words are secondary. Thoughts live; They travel far".-----Swami Vivekananda

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The Message of Swami Vivekananda

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Tuesday, March 17, 2009,
"You fail only when you do not strive sufficiently to manifest infinite power. As soon as a man or a nation loses faith in himself or itself, death comes. Believe first in yourself, and then in God."

"If there is any sin, this is the only sin to say that you are weak, or others are weak."

"Purity, Patience, and perseverance are the three essentials to success, and above all, love."

"We must have life-building, man-making, character-making, assimilation of ideas. If you have assimilated five idea...

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Values & Ethics

Posted by Tapan Kumar on Friday, March 13, 2009,
Values:-Values are the enduring beliefs that influence our opinions and actions, as well as the decisions we make.

Ethics:-Ethics are that dimension of human thought and behaviour that is guided by standards and principles of appropriate conduct. It involves a commitment to do right thing.

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As one acts and conducts himself, so does he becomes good. The doer of evil becomes evil. One becomes virtuous by virtuous action, bad by bad action.---Upanishads

Why is love so important? -Mata Amritanandamayi

A loving word,a compassionate look, a simple good deed-all these can bring light to the lives of the less fortunate as well as to your own. It is not what you gain, but what you are able to give that determines the value of your life. If you have been able to give happiness to a soul-even for a minute-it makes your life blessed. Love gives everything, there is no thought of receiving . Love has no complaints; it accepts all. Love removes all fears; it transforms all ugliness into beauty. Because it is the real refuge, it is the beauty of life; it makes it ever new and fresh. love is the expression of the self. It is the thread on which all the beings are strung. When love awakens in a person, the divinity in him or her also awakens for love is god; it is the manifestation of the divine.
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Divine Treasure

Vigour, Forgiveness, Fortitude, Purity, absence of hatred, absence of overweening pride-these belong to the one who is born with Divine Treasures-Bhagawat Gita 16:3

"If there is righteousness in the heart, there will be beauty in character. If there is beauty in character, there will be harmony in the home, when there is harmony in the home, there will be order in the nation, when there is order in the nation, there will be peace in the world." --Sri Sathya Sai Baba

 Choose Well

If you choose the wrong path, you cannot complain that you are lost. Salt and camphor look alike, but you have to exercise your intelligence to discriminate between them. Brass makes more noise than gold, but you should not be deceived by that and choose brass instead of gold.- Sri Sathya Sai Baba

 Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned---The Buddha

 

 To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline & control one's mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.---Gautama Buddha

 It is diffcult to discuss the beginning of the Universe without mentioning the concept of God...It is quite possible that God acts in ways that cannot be described by scientific laws. But in that case one would just have to go by personal belief.---Stephen Hawking

 The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.--Socrates

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 Success with Spiritual attainment

What is success: It is defined as the  achievement of  the objective. Different people define their objective differently. Some people set their objective of getting something in the material world, such as acquiring wealth, acquiring a high position & status in the society & so on. 

Some people define success by what they can contribute to the society.

If your objective is only to acquire something for yourself such as acquiring wealth, then it will not be regarded as great though you may become successful in achieving your objective. 

Take inspiration from the following quote of the celebrated Tamil Poet & philosopher:

“Among the wealthy, compassionate men claim the richest wealth, for material wealth is possessed by even contemptible men.

Find and follow the good path and be ruled by compassion. For if the various ways are examined, compassion will prove the means to liberation.”-----Thiruvalluvar.

How to get success:

a) Define your values & strengthen your character:In order to get enduring success & happiness in life you have to nurture the  attributes like Integrity, patience, perseverance, tolerance, empathy, caring, understanding, supportive, humility, love, compassion. These are the foundation stones for getting true & enduring success.

Nurturing these values will strengthen your character. Your soul will be purified. It will enhance the inner beauty. Your reputation will grow. Your reputation comes from your behavior & conduct. Your behavior & conduct is driven by your values, i.e, how do you interpret life, people & the world. It takes long years to earn & build reputation. 

According to Great Management Guru Stephen R Covey there are two types of ethics for getting success. One is personality & the other is character. Personality ethics  emphasizes more on quick-fix influence techniques such as  communication skills, positive attitude etc. But without strengthening your character, if you apply these techniques for getting success, you may get it, but the success will not be enduring.

b) Prepare a mission  statement:-

Prepare a mission statement based on your values. Live by those values. Make your daily decisions, judgment & conduct yourself keeping in mind those values. 

According to Management Guru Stephen R Covey a personal mission statement is one that focuses what you want to be in terms of character and what you want to do in reference to contribution of achievements. Writing a mission statement can be the most important activity an individual can take to truly lead ones life.

You must have great ideas for getting success. You have to believe in yourself. You have to have passion for what you do based on your values. Keep on doing what you love. Don’t run after success. Success will automatically follow, if your ideals are great.

Great people have great mission in life. 

c) Balance the priorities of your life:-You have to play different roles during your life time. You have to cut a balance on family, career, spirituality, love, health, wealth etc. If you don’t set your priorities you may be successful in one area of life & unsuccessful in other areas.  

Identify the top priorities in life set your objective & make commitment to achieve those objectives.

d) Follow the life of great people & inspire yourself:-

Success story of Thomas Alva Edision: Thomas Alva Edision failed about 999 times to invent the lamp before he succeed in doing it on the 1000th attempt. When people asked him how did you manage to keep going even though you were failing all the time he replied telling them, each time it didn't work i used to say i discovered a new way of how to not invent the lamp.” Failure is the Pillar of success”, what you can learn from Thomas Edison success story. 

Success story of Walt Disney: Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because, "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas." After that, Disney started a number of businesses that didn't last too long and ended with bankruptcy and failure. He kept plugging along, however, and eventually found a recipe for success that worked.

Conclusion: “Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”---- Winston Churchill

You have to have courage to face the hurdles coming on your way to success.

 Take inspiration from this great quotes of Hindu Philosopher & Saint Swami Vivekananda.

“In a day when you don’t come across any problem, you can be sure that you are travelling in a wrong path.”---Swami Vivekananda 

“Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life; think of it; dream of it; live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success...”---Swami Vivekananda.

Most of the Great & successful people are humble & their success is based on their strength of character & high moral values.  

Ultimate objective of human being  should be to enrich soul through spiritual practices.

"Spirituality brings purpose & meaning to life. And as we develop it we grow in wisdom & love"-Alan Shelton

posted on 16/03/2013

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